tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post211893792508193674..comments2023-08-15T13:31:41.188+02:00Comments on I Like Chocolate, He Likes Vanilla: #Sad SundayAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-84846028241573287532012-12-19T14:51:48.094+01:002012-12-19T14:51:48.094+01:00Ever lovely Clive, it is hard isn't it! It too...Ever lovely Clive, it is hard isn't it! It took me about 9 years before I was finally able to address the kink (the polyamory came before that). Sex had always been such a problem for us, and hubby knew I liked more than him, but it took forever before he I could share how much more. It needed to be the right time for both of us to be able to handle. For some that time never comes, for others it comes earlier or later. I hope it comes for you, but if it doesn't, I am happy you have such a strong love for each other. <br /><br />Please do mentally unclothe me, I love the the thought!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-19660891701695843272012-12-19T14:45:18.840+01:002012-12-19T14:45:18.840+01:00Awwww, *smooshy feelings*
That is such a lovely ...Awwww, *smooshy feelings* <br /><br />That is such a lovely thing to say, thank you with sugar on top *hugs*<br /><br />Also, very many thanks for helping me to remember the strength it takes to embark on this with my husband rather than trying to do it alone or to keep it secret. I am lucky I am in a position to do that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-89560367513302569692012-12-19T14:43:37.150+01:002012-12-19T14:43:37.150+01:00Thank you for the complements. I often forget that...Thank you for the complements. I often forget that some bloggers aren't quite as honest about exposing their inner thoughts as I am. That is certainly a form of empowerment I had forgotten that I had. The fact that I am able to share these thoughts and that hubby welcomes me blogging about them is far more valuable than being able to show a nipple. Your words have helped a great deal.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-41916831979796623852012-12-19T14:40:26.919+01:002012-12-19T14:40:26.919+01:00Thank you for the complements!
Well done on pers...Thank you for the complements! <br /><br />Well done on persuading your boyfriend for taking part. That was surprisingly easy for hubby to accept, much less the content. <br /><br />I'm considerably less sad now, all of the comments are so very helpful. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-69054135876754302132012-12-19T14:38:38.708+01:002012-12-19T14:38:38.708+01:00Thank you. I don't intend on posting my face, ...Thank you. I don't intend on posting my face, or even close-ups of much of me. It is the balance between being covered and not showing anything recognizable (house, clothes, location etc), that is a challenge. I will take it on though!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-43402960478933112482012-12-19T14:37:02.663+01:002012-12-19T14:37:02.663+01:00Thank you *hugs*Thank you *hugs*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-36135228344866602762012-12-19T14:36:30.276+01:002012-12-19T14:36:30.276+01:00I must admit, I agree to a certain extent. I often...I must admit, I agree to a certain extent. I often find the shots of ass/boobs/genitalia a little overwhelming. I prefer to see them in artistic, interesting or unusual situations.<br /><br />I will embrace the challenge, and thank you for the complement.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-69468768091373995012012-12-19T14:34:31.283+01:002012-12-19T14:34:31.283+01:00Thank you *hugs*Thank you *hugs*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-4426471833874197952012-12-19T14:34:11.632+01:002012-12-19T14:34:11.632+01:00One of your great strengths, at least online, is y...One of your great strengths, at least online, is your honesty and your talent. I am sure the combination of factors will ensure that your children react kindly, in the long term if not the short term. I wish you the best of luck with it!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-36765682397629586072012-12-19T14:32:41.126+01:002012-12-19T14:32:41.126+01:00Your blog is amazing considering how much you need...Your blog is amazing considering how much you need to do by yourself. I am always astounded by your creativity. Perhaps I should use you for more inspiration!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-6148839737939861452012-12-19T14:31:37.829+01:002012-12-19T14:31:37.829+01:00Thank you.Thank you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-59447903703195111962012-12-19T14:30:58.303+01:002012-12-19T14:30:58.303+01:00I am known among my friends and family as being a ...I am known among my friends and family as being a bit of a WYSIWIG (what you see is what you get). I don't feel comfortable not being open and honest with people, it feels like I am cheating myself. <br /><br />I do understand the need to remain incognito, but it chafes.<br /><br />The idea that the kind of photo you take is a glimpse into who you are is a good one though. I think my photos have all shown something of that nature. This cleavage shot is, I think, tastelss. It was my way of saying "fuck it." So, I suppose, it was a glimpse into who I am - certainly my mood at the time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-29479363070229820332012-12-19T14:26:24.138+01:002012-12-19T14:26:24.138+01:00We just have to start being creative, but creative...We just have to start being creative, but creative takes time, and that isn't something we have had a lot of lately. Bugger. I am very careful about not showing my wedding ring, it is very unusual (unique, I designed it and it was made by a specialist). When I get my tattoo (March/April I hope) I will be keeping that a secret too.<br /><br />I LOVE the fact that people who find out via the website itself have no right to judge. So very true, and not something I had previously thought of.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-89608761096308667492012-12-19T14:23:49.445+01:002012-12-19T14:23:49.445+01:00I was wondering! I think the key phrase is indeed ...I was wondering! I think the key phrase is indeed "give and take." There isn't really much compromise available when it comes to hubby and I, we have such different experiences and identities. We negotiate everything. I am lucky to be in such a fantastic relationship where that is possible. The giving and taking makes both of us a little sad though, no matter what "side" we happen to be on. Thank goodness this is the only flaw in our otherwise perfect relationship!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-47967942276186371262012-12-18T10:26:53.044+01:002012-12-18T10:26:53.044+01:00Oh I do so know where you are coming from Emily!! ...Oh I do so know where you are coming from Emily!! - Mrs. Clive and I have totally different viewpoints on sex and kink and (for risk of hurt) my particular oddities remain an unhealthy secret. But we love each other to bits and that is what really counts! Don't be sad - look for the humour in everything (there is always so much) and keep smiling. If hubby censores the images - so be it, we all have romping imaginations anyway and I am sure I am not alone in having just mentally unclothed that image :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-60814836171561520612012-12-18T05:31:38.539+01:002012-12-18T05:31:38.539+01:00Not only do I want to echo the comments above, I w...Not only do I want to echo the comments above, I want to commend you both for having the strength to not only take this journey, but to do it together. That takes a lot of courage. *hugs* I am very happy to have you as part of our community here, naked or not.Yes, THAT Tonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07021592537978212555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-13352643679485835052012-12-18T04:18:50.700+01:002012-12-18T04:18:50.700+01:00Very sexy cleavage! I am relatively new to Sinful...Very sexy cleavage! I am relatively new to Sinful Sunday, and am having tons of fun with it. I feel lucky to be able to post fully nude photos of myself, because I enjoy it and I know that not everyone is able to expose themselves in that way. However, there are many ways to feel sexy and liberated and intimate without showing nipples, and I think you've shown that in this post. You are a sexy, beautiful woman exposing yourself, your feelings, and the trust and communication of your relationship, even if it's difficult sometimes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-61168642812690428312012-12-17T19:50:07.156+01:002012-12-17T19:50:07.156+01:00Aw I'm sorry you're sad. You do have a tru...Aw I'm sorry you're sad. You do have a truely amazig bosom! My boyfriend doesn't like me taking part, he thinks that my body should be for him only. Yet I somehow managed to persuade him these last two weeks. It's a tricky one. You have a gorgeous body and you're right to be proud Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-43659468522962363872012-12-17T14:06:11.962+01:002012-12-17T14:06:11.962+01:00It's difficult, it took me awhile to admit tha...It's difficult, it took me awhile to admit that I was a sex blogger, and that I wanted to work as a sex educator or teacher. Most of my friends thought it was cool, but my family thought I was insane.<br /><br />While I don't really have to worry too much about posting pictures of my face, I like the air of excitement and mystery. Try and think of the positive and fun sides to that, if you can =)NymphomaniacNesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13080472217555146135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-10250716984388394342012-12-16T23:02:06.548+01:002012-12-16T23:02:06.548+01:00I'm sorry to hear about your tough situation, ...I'm sorry to hear about your tough situation, and I hope you two continue to communicate and work things out; sending you hugs as well,<br />xxPennyPennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08745900118788425735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-60483480474953380752012-12-16T22:44:08.338+01:002012-12-16T22:44:08.338+01:00Just ... *hugs* Communication is the glue that hol...Just ... *hugs* Communication is the glue that holds relationships together, and you've got that. And hugs!<br /><br />xx DeeDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09293282711513429803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-52484402543368446572012-12-16T15:50:25.464+01:002012-12-16T15:50:25.464+01:00Several years ago, there was a weekly meme called ...Several years ago, there was a weekly meme called Half-Nekkid Thursday, or HNT. When it started 6 or 7 years ago, it was about anything but nudity, rarely saw a bare breast, naked ass, and definitely not cock or pussy. Still, it was very sexy and in many ways it's more of a creative challenge to find ways to share images of yourself without *just* showing your tits.<br /><br />Now, while I'm a guy and therefore I'd like to see your tits, what I'm saying is, embrace the challenge of finding ways to sensually display yourself without crossing your husbands boundaries.<br /><br />Best wishes to you and your hubby as your continue to talk and find that middle ground where both of you are happy.<br /><br />Oh, and nice cleavage, it's very nice to see you :-)Hubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12080481657336478578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-19766342842657431252012-12-16T14:30:47.570+01:002012-12-16T14:30:47.570+01:00It is a tough one for sure. I am very lucky that I...It is a tough one for sure. I am very lucky that I am not in a position to have to worry about employers finding my blog but when I started off way back when I was very careful to not post images that showed my face but as time has gone on and I have made more and more real life friends who are involved in all areas of the erotic creative industry I have realised that it is a fairly futile task and so I have slowly unmasked myself. <br /><br />I do have my children to consider and I know there will come a day when I will have to help them understand the choices I have made but I am not scared of that day I am just hopeful that I do a good job with it.<br /><br />MollyxxxMollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06092277852521491869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-82630426642075473462012-12-16T13:46:56.991+01:002012-12-16T13:46:56.991+01:00I completely understand. My husband has little id...I completely understand. My husband has little idea what I do since he lost all interest in bedroom activities four years ago. I finally had to make my own way, but it was not without a lot of heartache.<br /><br />~Kazi xxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08488997874704371763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9212565565170685016.post-5386150534087071562012-12-16T13:44:35.916+01:002012-12-16T13:44:35.916+01:00Love the breasts. Beautiful.
ava xLove the breasts. Beautiful. <br /><br />ava xAva Gracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07594569077635903176noreply@blogger.com