101 Things in 1001 Days

This here is a list of 101 things I am going to do in 1001 days. They are arbitrarily dumped in groups because I am a nerd and like classifying things. Not all of the items are as they seem because some are written in code to protect the guilty, which is occasionally me. I will make blog posts about the list, especially the sexy times! I’m hoping it will be a lot of fun!

 

The idea is inspired by Sex with Rose who has a blog with Agatha-Luise over at The List Adventures. They were inspired by the Day Zero Project, where people write themselves to do lists to lead to positive life change. Jillian Boyd and Rhyannah also provided inspiration with their lists over at the The Goal Mine.

I will add other links as soon as I get them.

 

I explain a little bit more about my reasons for doing this in my launch post. Now, on with the show…

Starting Date: 13^th January 2013

End Date: 11^th October 2015

Goals completed so far: 13

Goals failed so far: 1 (#26)

 

 

 

Sexy Times

1. Have sex on THE balcony
2. Do a full strip tease for hubby
3. Be all tied up with rope play
4. Discover if it is possible for me to squirt
5. Find a way to get my anal needs met without pestering hubby to change
6. Go to the fetish shop with hubby
7. Go to a fetish event with hubby
8. Have sex with hubby outside
9. Have sex in a car
10. Get some Anal Beads
11. Get some Kegal Ball thingies
12. Get some nipple clamps with a chain for hubby to pull
13. Get tied to the coffee table and abused by hubby
14. Have sex with someone other than myself every day for a month (online sex and phone sex counts)

Relationship Growth

15. Find an equilibrium with the polyamory (in whatever form that may be)
16. Attend Opencon and/or Polyday
17. Negotiate a position with hubby where I am able to play online with people without permission by January 2015. If there is no compromise possible I should find a way to be at peace with that instead.

Writing (non-blog related)

18. Finish my priest story
19. Submit an erotic story for publication
20. Get published in the erotic/romance genre
21. Publish my magnum opus
22. Co-write an erotic story
23. Contribute to 5 websites (blogs are ok) not owned by me [2/5] First contribution at Sinful Sunday. Second contribution is in RL so it's a secret!

Blogging

24. Celebrate the first anniversary of my blog
25. Write reviews of 10 fiction or non-fiction books for my blog [0/10]
26. Maximize the socializing and learning fun from Eroticon 2013 I hate to say I failed this because I missed it due to grief, but for the moment it looks like I failed one :(
27. Finish the Thirty Days of Kink Meme
28. Go to Erotic Meet
29. Make a custom background for my blog
30. Write three blog posts on my blog involving contributions from three different people, all of whom I must be friends with in RL [1/3] First

Travelling and Outings

31. Holiday in the States
32. Go to a nudist beach
33. Take a night walk in the woods
34. Go to hubby’s special country
35. Go on holiday with hubby to a country where neither of us has been
36. Find a part of France I like
37. Have another trip with hubby in England
38. Visit Maastricht
39. Go to a three star Michelin restaurant
40. Go to a Michelin star restaurant in the Netherlands
41. Go to three events with the sister [0/3]
42. Go to the cinema 15 times [2/15]
43. Watch the sun rise and sun set in the same day
44. Go back to my retreat for a week
45. Go to the new retreat with hubby
46. Go to five new cafes/restaurants where I live [3/5]

Taking Charge

47. Eliminate non-fitting clothing from my wardrobe
48. Start the chain link approach to time management, including EXERCISE
49. Complete a chain in three weeks
50. Complete a chain for two months
51. Complete a chain for six months OR replace it legitimately with a more rigorous regime
52. Sort through my craft boxes and eliminate nonsense
53. Finish the lady piccie here
54. Put 5 Euro in a secret place for every completed goal [0/101]
55. Read all of my books on the bookshelves (if a book is too awful to finish, that counts as having been read)
56. Give out 10 ‘I saw this and thought of you’ gifts [0/10]
57. Take five euros from the secret pot for each failed task and put it in a charity pot for a charity I would not normally donate to
58. Get a tattoo
59. Keep myself around the 60kg mark, because that is where I feel most comfortable
60. Catalogue all my books (Library Thing? Custom database?)
61. Change my phone I now have a Samsung. Yey!
62. Do my share of the housework (as judged by hubby at the end of each month [1/33, 26 months needed to pass the task])
63. Iron the shirts before they are needed [60 fails permitted 7/60]
64. Buy a custom-made or decorated piece of clothing
65. Buy a custom-made or decorated vegetarian pair of shoes
66. Tidy my desk so I can use it again
67. Help hubby tidy and redesign the other room
68. Go to the dentist
69. Get dressed before 10:30am every working day until I go to Eroticon 2013 [4 fails permitted 0/4]
70. Break my Facebook habit
71. Get a pixie hair cut (or an equally short cut if advised by a hair stylist)
72. Try yet another new way to cut my own hair
73. Try to overcome my foot phobia by painting my toenails (clickety the thingy for a pic)
74. Try to overcome my foot phobia by going to a fish foot eating place with hubby
75. Take at least one yoga class
76. Have a relaxing bath 15 times [0/15]
77. Take pictures with hubby in a photobooth
78. Move house
79. Read a supermarket romance novel in a language other than English
80. Find a way to help X survive after the carers are gone
81. Eat entirely vegan for a week
82. Make a custom “quick and easy” recipe book for hubby and I
83. Cosplay with a group of cosplayers to a theme

Skills Development

84. Become better at speaking X
85. Learn a language with hubby (X, X, or X)
86. Learn how to use commas, semi-colons, colons, and dashes properly
87. Learn to play a song on the guitar
88. Collect two more qualifications [1/2]
89. Take a taster/introductory course in counseling to see if it might be for me
90. Build a more professional website for my career

 

Personal Growth and Reflection

91. Write a list of 100 things that make me happy [0/100]

92. Write a list of 50 things I like about myself [0/50]
93. Finish the 30 days of Truth (not necessary to post) Nine are finished, one is here
94. Address the sex issue with the in-laws (and hubby)
95. Come out to a group of people at the same time
96. Return to volunteering in a social role (rather than just professional or fun related volunteering roles)
97. Replace this item with something new to do on 14/01/14
98. Replace this item with something new to do on 15/01/15
99. Do the new number 97
100. Do the new number 98
101. Have a huge celebration in 2015