Handy links engaging with sex-positive, kinky, and poly ideas, practices, and lifestyles
(This list will keep growing)
Some Great Blogs (in no particular order, but with a definite bias towards submissives and kinky folk)
http://curvaceousdee.com/ "Exhibitionist with words, skin and sex. ... Labels I choose for myself: pansexual, polyamorous, fat, kinky, New Zealander, writer."
http://absinthepassion.wordpress.com/ "The journeys of a Polyamorous, sometime Swinger, Absinthe loving couple."
http://rebelsnotes.com/ "I am submissive to my Husband. He loves me. He owns me."
http://mollysdailykiss.com/ "my exploration of my submissive nature"
http://wholesexlife.com/category/blog/ "We're changing the way people look at sex!"
http://heelsnstocking.blogspot.nl "Sexual Adventures of a Married Woman"
http://www.girlonthenet.com/ "Girl. Pervert. Blogger. Powered by a combination of cider, lust and commuter rage."
http://frisky916cpl.blogspot.nl/ "We're a couple that enjoys the simpler things in life, especially sex!"
And if you want more:
Top 100 sex bloggers 2012 http://www.dirtylittlewhispers.com/100-top-sex-bloggers-2012/
Monthly round-up of interesting sex blog posts http://elustsexblogs.com/
http://www.morethantwo.com/ Possibly the first site poly folk send newbies to find stuff out. A must read
http://openingup.net/ Tristin Taormino's Polyamory site (her book of the same name is a must read)
http://www.polyamory.com A fantastic forum for all aspects of poly life (less political, more practical). Very supportive, great advice, lots of people use it to blog about their own experiences.
http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.nl/ Yes! Poly folk exist even in the media, alas, it isn't always good
http://www.practicalpolyamory.com An easy to read guide about polyamory, especially useful for the uninitiated
http://goodvibesblog.com/ Sex-positive blogs associated with a sex-toy company
http://puckerup.com/ Tristin Taormino's sex-positive advice/campaign/news site, including details about her fabby books and porn. Especially useful for those exploring anal sex.