This idea seemed particularly perfect for right (here, right) now because many changes are afoot in my life, many more than those I discuss on my blog. My list includes everything from getting my hair cut to having sex in a car (I licked someone’s cock in a car once about twenty years ago, but I don’t really count it, my dad caught us, whoops!).
Some of the items on the list are very personal and private so I haven’t fully described what they are (and I won't tell you which ones are in code!). As for why the items are on the list, well that is for me to know and … oh, all right then, twist my arm. Have a couple of explanations …
“Go to a nudist beach” This seems pretty easy for someone happy to go to the toilet in front of total strangers, but nope. I really hate sand! It gets everywhere and is uncomfortable. Also, it is tricky finding someone willing to go with me. Maybe hubby will, just for the hell of it.
“Finish the 30 days of Truth (not necessary to post)” Why would I complete a blogging meme and not post the answers to the prompts? For my own growth. I started answering the prompts before I started the 30 Days of Kink meme, but it became very emotionally raw and too intense to post so I gave up with it. Writing it was valuable though, so I will finish the prompts and perhaps some of them may even end up on the blog.
“Return to volunteering in a social role” Since I was 11 (yes, eleven), I have been a volunteer. This has never, ever stopped. I cannot recall a time where I have not volunteered. The problem is, for the past eight years this volunteering has all been for professional purposes. I have organized events, networks, meetings and all sorts of other things. I have represented women and young people until I was blue in the face. I have done all manner of necessary and important things that I (mostly) enjoyed, but they were also not very useful for society in the broader sense, more for the disenfranchised members of an elite group. It is time I returned to volunteering with children or older people or people with (learning) disabilities or animals, or perhaps now with some other community groups. Working with sexuality campaign groups or something more relevant to my current lifestyle may be the way forward. Donating money to charities and ranting on the internet just doesn’t cut it anymore!
“Have sex with someone other than myself every day for a month (online sex and phone sex counts)”. It has been many years since I had sex with someone every day for a month, although I did come close back when I was mucking about with James. I want to have a go at getting this fixed. I don't think hubby would be up for 30 days of sexing with me, but I am sure I can pull together a couple of online pals to play with. But I do have three years, so maybe if I wait a couple his ever growing sex drive will match mine eventually.
So, where is the rest of this list, over here on its own special page: 101 Things in 1001 Days
If you have any questions about it do ask, and if you are inspired to make your own let me know!
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