Wednesday 9 January 2013

101 Things in 1001 Days: The Launch

“I’m making a list of 101 things that I want to do in 1001 days … including the naughty stuff” This was Tweeted by @SexwithRose on the 30th December 2012. I was encouraged to do the same thing by @RebelsNotes, and so the journey to the center of the abyss begun – like all good things, while I was in bed!

This idea seemed particularly perfect for right (here, right) now because many changes are afoot in my life, many more than those I discuss on my blog. My list includes everything from getting my hair cut to having sex in a car (I licked someone’s cock in a car once about twenty years ago, but I don’t really count it, my dad caught us, whoops!).

Some of the items on the list are very personal and private so I haven’t fully described what they are (and I won't tell you which ones are in code!). As for why the items are on the list, well that is for me to know and … oh, all right then, twist my arm. Have a couple of explanations …

“Go to a nudist beach” This seems pretty easy for someone happy to go to the toilet in front of total strangers, but nope. I really hate sand! It gets everywhere and is uncomfortable. Also, it is tricky finding someone willing to go with me. Maybe hubby will, just for the hell of it.

“Finish the 30 days of Truth (not necessary to post)” Why would I complete a blogging meme and not post the answers to the prompts? For my own growth. I started answering the prompts before I started the 30 Days of Kink meme, but it became very emotionally raw and too intense to post so I gave up with it. Writing it was valuable though, so I will finish the prompts and perhaps some of them may even end up on the blog.

Return to volunteering in a social role” Since I was 11 (yes, eleven), I have been a volunteer. This has never, ever stopped. I cannot recall a time where I have not volunteered. The problem is, for the past eight years this volunteering has all been for professional purposes. I have organized events, networks, meetings and all sorts of other things. I have represented women and young people until I was blue in the face. I have done all manner of necessary and important things that I (mostly) enjoyed, but they were also not very useful for society in the broader sense, more for the disenfranchised members of an elite group. It is time I returned to volunteering with children or older people or people with (learning) disabilities or animals, or perhaps now with some other community groups. Working with sexuality campaign groups or something more relevant to my current lifestyle may be the way forward. Donating money to charities and ranting on the internet just doesn’t cut it anymore!
 
Have sex with someone other than myself every day for a month (online sex and phone sex counts)”. It has been many years since I had sex with someone every day for a month, although I did come close back when I was mucking about with James. I want to have a go at getting this fixed. I don't think hubby would be up for 30 days of sexing with me, but I am sure I can pull together a couple of online pals to play with. But I do have three years, so maybe if I wait a couple his ever growing sex drive will match mine eventually.
 
 
So, where is the rest of this list, over here on its own special page: 101 Things in 1001 Days
 
If you have any questions about it do ask, and if you are inspired to make your own let me know!



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14 comments:

  1. Oh, there are some very interesting things on your list and even some things that we can work on together, I think ;)

    My list will be up soon!

    Rebel xox

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    1. Collaboration is always good :D

      Looking forward to seeing your list.

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  2. If you go to Little Beach on the island of Maui on any given Sunday...YOU WILL HAVE THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE!!! Everyone is nude or not! It's optional. Fire dancers, drum circles, best waves ever, whales shooting up water in the distance, edible treats of your choice. It was the best time I had in Maui. Seriously. It's worth it.

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    1. Sounds fun! Not sure I will ever get to Maui though...

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  3. Good for you. I am doing one too. It will be published on Saturday along with Rebel who is my 101 in 1001 days 'sister'. Making the list was a challenge in itself and I think achieving it all will be pretty massive but I shall enjoy giving it my best shot

    Mollyxxx

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    1. I'm looking forward to seeing your list.

      It was hard thinking of things to begin with but in the end I had to leave things off the list. I think I had around 150 by the time I finished it.

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  4. I wish you good luck. I am a massive fan of To Do lists myself and I did consider doing this task as well but I think I really don't have time to give it justice. Finishing a degree while I am doing another Diploma and keeping my blog alive I think will consume me for most of this year.

    I am considering the 30 Days of Truth though.

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    1. A lot of the things on my list are stuff that I should be doing or want to do, so it is a way to help me structure my time better. Whether it works or not we shall see. It will be jolly expensive if I fail too many tasks!

      Good luck with the 30 Days of Truth, it is hard!

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  5. Fantastic idea! I've always had such lists in my head, rather than writing them down, but it makes a great statement to have them all out in black and white that way :)

    ~Kazi xxx

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    1. Thank you, I think so too. It gives extra impetus as well, without pressure I am pretty rubbish!

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  6. Oh I hear you loud and clear on the sex drive difference. Like you I could have sex daily and never grow tired of it.. spouse yeah not so much.. I may have to work on a similar list for my naughty blog hmmmm

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    1. ooh, do, it is funning doing it the same time as lots of other people!

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  7. Not sure I wan't to know what a "fish foot eating place" is, but the different ideas that popped into my head were pretty funny.

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    1. This is it, I kind of wish there were giant pirahna places to eat your feet and have them replaced with something else.

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